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Relationship Insights That Will Help You Go From Purpose to Vision

Relationships, they come in all shapes, sizes and colors.  From familial, to work, to spiritual to friends, they’re there.  Then you have the good ones, the bad ones, the loving, hurtful, toxic or empowering ones.  Well they all do one thing – grow you!

The word relationship is defined as a connection, association, or involvement; an emotional or other connection between people.

You are in a relationship right now – with me!  Think about that.

As a woman pursuing her purpose in God, desperately seeking the way to live out the greatness she knows she is called to, you are going to experience relationships that will empower you, teach you, test you, hurt you and disappoint you.

When I first started this journey of living my life on purpose with God at the forefront, I thought everyone would be happy for me.  Tereciah had found her purpose!  I was so excited that I knew, finally, why I was here on earth and I was bursting at the seams to do something with the gifts, talents, and skills God had given me and allowed me to learn.  I was ready!

People didn’t get it.  And it hurt – a lot.

My husband didn’t get it; my family didn’t get it; the people at work didn’t get it and even some of my Christian friends didn’t get it.  Talk about being deflated!

However, I did not allow those relationships to stop me or derail me and if you are in this situation right now, don’t let those relationships hinder or stop you as well.

Here are some quick insights to help you walk out this journey from purpose to vision.

  • Who Has Your Ear?

I once heard someone say that whoever has your hear has your mind.  If you allow people to speak words of doubt or lies to you, you will start to believe it. You will see yourself as the words they have spoken.  Words DO have power; whether spoken by you or by others.

  •  Surround Yourself

Not everything is good for you and the same principal holds true for relationships.  Not all relationships have your best interest at heart.  Surround yourself with individuals that are positive, willing to share, encourages you and is growing spiritually.  You want to be able to see fruitfulness manifesting in their lives.  You want to see these individuals doing what it takes to bring their vision into reality.  You want to see faith in action, and with that faith iron will sharpen iron.  In other words your faith will grow and increase because of their faith and vice versa.

  •  Disassociate and Pray!

There will be people in your life – family, friends and haters – that you will have to stop associating with.  It doesn’t mean that you don’t care for them or that you don’t love them anymore.  But you are trying to do God’s will and be obedient.  They may not understand.  If that is the case then keep your distance, be cordial and pray.

Well, what if it’s a spouse or a child or a parent or a best friend?  Then hold your peace and pray; hard (that’s another blog post)!

  •  Know Yourself

What things inspire you?  How do you like to be encouraged?  What traits are important to you in an individual (integrity, friendliness, etc.)  How do you see yourself?  Are you willing to grow?  What things are you willing to accept or not accept in an individual?  What type of relationship are you looking for?  Are you willing to change if necessary?  Are you willing to give to others?  Remember relationships come in different forms.

  •  Reflect and Learn

Take some time to reflect on relationships past and present.  Were they good or bad?  How did you end up in the relationship?  How did you grow?  What lesson did you learn?  Were there mistakes then that you see yourself making now? How have you changed?  Why did the relationship come to an end?  How do you feel about the individual or the situation?

Sometimes God removes individuals from our lives because He knows they are not good for us.  There are times when they are only there for a season – or two, and other times He removes you because He needs you alone.  He needs to pour into you; cleanse you; get you into spiritual shape.

  •  God First

Above everything and all else keep God first.  Let him lead and guide you.  Read his word, follow His decrees and allow Him to call you friend!

I hope these few insights have helped you in walking out your purpose to the big picture of what God says is possible for your life; your vision.

In my relationship with you, I hope we can continue to grow together!

To Your Greatness!

© 2012 Tereciah V. Smithen-Quintana

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Vision to Reality – 5 Easy Steps to Manage Your Time More Effectively

                    Stone steps leading to ocean

By the time you read this the 4th of July holiday will have come and gone and you’ll be winding down to your week – or just getting started depending on where you are and what you are doing.

If you took a couple of days off for the holiday you’ll probably find yourself sluggish in getting back into some sort on normalcy on Monday.

Summer is in full swing, the kids are out of school and you’re wearing multiple hats and juggling various roles.

I know you are busy, but here is a question for you?  How have you altered your summer lifestyle to accommodate God, family, and your vision?

Did you find that you had more time to work on your vision?  What about spending quality time with God?  What goals have you made for yourself and what do you find yourself needing help with?

In order for your vision to proceed you must make time to work it.

I once had a mentor tell me when I first started out, that “the vision was only as good as they vessel.”  Let me repeat that for you because you’ve got to truly understand it.

The vision is only as good as the vessel.

You are the vessel and your vision – the big picture of what God says is possible for your life – starts and stops with you.  God cannot force you to do anything.

So here is a short video I recorded just for you to assist you in managing your time more effectively – starting on Monday.

You can view it on your mobile phone, iPad or even your home computer, just view it and apply it to your life.

View video here!

Be Blessed!

© 2012 Tereciah V. Smithen-Quintana

6 Key Ways to Know if You’re in a Transition

Change is never comfortable.  Sometimes it can be downright painful!  But it’s part of life, and at times the will of God.

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Change can manifest in different areas of our lives and when it comes, we are not sure how or the best way to respond.  Relationships, such as marriage or divorce; Emotions, such as death or birth; Career, as in promotion or retirement and Spiritual Growth – it’s all there.  We find ourselves going through phases, a shift, growth – a transition.

Are you in transition from your purpose to your vision?

What is vision? “It is the big picture of what God says is possible for your life.”

Here are 6 key ways to know if you’re in a transition.  A vision transition.

1.     An Inner Restlessness

When you’re in transition, especially at the beginning stage, life may feel as if it’s in limbo.

There is discomfort and discontent.  Not physical discomfort, but emotional and spiritual discomfort.  Your old self seems to be disappearing.  The things you once did you don’t enjoy as much anymore.  The people you associated with, you’ve withdrawn or don’t seek their counsel any more.  And the spiritual walk you had before – or lack of – doesn’t seem to be enough.  You find yourself seeking a change, but what sort of change you can’t describe.  Something is off, but you don’t quite know what it is.  You don’t feel like “you” and you’re desperately trying to figure it out.

2.     A Desire For a Deeper Relationship With God

The word relationship means having a connection, association or involvement.  Have a personal one means having a deeper, one-on-one connection, association or involvement.

When your mind is a-twitter and you can’t seem to put your finger on what’s out of place in your life. When you start experiencing feelings of discontent and life feels meaningless, then you start searching for answers and comfort, encouragement.  You go to the one whom you know has the answers; God.

A relationship starts to build and you have a desire to know and learn more about Him.  In this stage you may start attending church services regularly, or find yourself in the Bible more often.  You start growing and God starts to speak to you in your own way.  His Spirit is there cocooning   you as you grow.

The more you seek after Him, the more you grow.  Your faith grows and His desires for your life are revealed.

3.     The Soul Searching

Soul searching, it sounds so deep and serious!  But it’s really a good time. In this stage you’re asking questions.  Questions like, “God, what is your plan for my life?  What is my purpose?  Why am I here on earth?”  You start to look deep within yourself, searching for clues as to who the real you is and how to live this real person fully and authentically.

You develop a desire to please God and you start asking and wondering how you can live a life that is on purpose with Him at the center of what you do.

You consider serious changes to your life, career, family and finances.  There is a lot of introspection and examination. You may consider the ultimate question of “If I could do one thing for the rest of my life and not have to worry about finances or time, what would it be?”  God reveals even more of what He has for you and your purpose, the ultimate reason you are here on earth is ignited.

4.     Quest for knowledge and understanding

Clarification, direction, purpose, reason; these are all information you are in search of.  This stage usually consists of individuals wanting and seeking more knowledge and understanding.

It involves a lot of digging deep and doing some research and examination.  You learn things about yourself in this phase that you didn’t know about.  Things you’re glad you learned and others you would have preferred to not acknowledge.

Some call it a wilderness experience.  Some may say it’s a breaking experience; however, both are due to the purging, cleansing, improving and repenting that happen in this stage.

You seek guidance and direction from individuals that can assist in getting clarity and direction in life; individuals such as Life Coaches, pastors or business leaders.

Seminars, workshops or conferences that will empower and guide you, are usually prevalent during this stage.  You research and follow others that you feel can speak into your life through their sermon, classes, speeches, or books.  You read, you listen, and you apply.  A change starts to happen.  You can feel it and others can see it.

You invest in yourself.  You don’t mind spending money on the resources that will help you to grow and move into a more fulfilling life in Christ.  You start to flex your wings and test what you’ve accomplished so far.

5.     Ready, Set …No, wait, I think I’m stuck!

The most challenging phase!  In this stage you’re ready to walk into what God says is yours.   You’re ready to do what God has asked you to do, or place in your heart.

You want to get out there because it’s been simmering within you for so long.  You want to do His will, but you don’t quite know how.  In this stage you may have to learn new skills, change a mindset, move to another state, get rid of some friends or take big steps.

Defeating qualities such as fear, doubt, or insecurity begins to raise their ugly heads.  You struggle to move from the idea, the mandate, to the actual progression and manifestation of what you know is possible for your life.  In essence, sometimes the individual becomes stuck.  Not because of a lack of desire, but because of a lack of faith.  The foothold of fear is refusing to let go.

6.     A Walk of Faith

This stage is the best one!  I call it the “okay God, I don’t know how, but I’m doing it anyway” stage.  In this stage you have moved beyond the fear and doubts and other hindrances and is actually doing God’s vision for your life.

You literally depend on God to lead you and guide you in your vision walk.  You go to Him and wait for Him to answer before you move.

Your study of the word is deeper, your faith is stronger and you not only know the word for yourself but your authority in things of your vision is on point.  You are speaking those things that are as they should be and you have no

Doors start to open.  Favor and blessings are manifested and individuals are drawn to you in bringing the vision into reality.

You are bold and confident with no apologies in what is happening in your life and where God is taking you.

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These stages are not set in stone but are a guide for the person moving from purpose to walking, doing and living their God ordained vision.

Transition is an ever-changing and learning process.  There are different levels in any stage and it can take an individual several weeks to several months or perhaps year, to go thru the refining process that God has for them.

As long as we keep God in the fore front and understand that He has already laid the plans he has for our lives then as we walk through the path of life, we can place our faith in the fact that He’s got us in His righteous right hand.

Be Blessed!

©2012 Tereciah V. Smithen-Quintana

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Your Vision in Reality

Several evenings ago I attended an event that as a requirement you had to dress and portray in character the overall vision God had for your life.  In other words it was a“Vision Party” and you were portraying yourself as if your vision was already manifested.

So, if the vision that God gave you were being a national bestselling author, a well known speaker that traveled all around the world evangelizing to others and doing signs and wonders, or even a financial expert with their own television show touching the lives of believers, you came as such.

And it was fun!!!

The amazing thing was hearing all God had placed within the lives of the women that attended and how each person’s vision was somehow interconnected with each in some way, shape or form.

When God has given you a vision and you are walking out your purpose in life sometimes it can seem huge!  You can see it, but many times others can’t.  They just can’t see you, the person, accomplishing, being, or doing the things God has purposed for your life.  They see the now; not the “to be”; the future.

I have written my vision down – many times.  I have envisioned it; dreamt it; prayed on it; fasted on it.  I know what it looks like.  But that night when I physically went from working it to actually being it, I felt like it was a new beginning, a new chapter in the book God has already written for my life.

As I stood in front of the ladies and spoke out loud the ideas and thoughts God has given me.  As I walked around the room, in character, as my future self.  As I listened and watched the women portray their future selves: confident, strong, leaders, trailblazers, world changers, authors, philanthropist, and entrepreneurs; I felt the awesomeness of the moment.  I felt the reality of God’s vision for my life and theirs. I felt God’s words that were uttered over our lives from before we came out of our mother’s womb, start to bud and the words that were sent forth by God, accomplishing that which He pleased.

“I have given them [God’s Children] the solutions to solve all of the world’s problems…” is a quote that was given to author Ericka D. Jackson when God was ushering her into her purpose in life; her vision.  And that evening, I can honestly say I saw the absolute truth to that statement.

Proverbs 18:21 says that death and life is in the power of the tongue.  We also know that we frame our world by the words we utter out of our mouths.  And that evening, I could feel destinies coming into alignment.  We were literally being the person we saw ourselves to be in a God ordained future.  There were no apologies for our greatness and no walking small!  No doubt and no hesitancy.  It was all purposed filled life!

So I ask you, what is God’s vision for your life?  What is that thing that when you think on it, dream it, envision it; it feels like, “it is already yours because it is within you waiting to [burst] forth?”

Whatever it is just know it’s already done.  So start walking towards it and live your vision in reality!

Tereciah V. Smithen-Quintana

Copyright 2012